Monogram Etiquette: Which Initial Goes Where?

Monogram Etiquette: Which Initial Goes Where?

Monogram Etiquette: Which Initial Goes Where?

by Gardenia Home


Monogramming adds a personal, timeless touch—but the order of initials matters! Here’s your quick visual guide to getting it just right:

 

1. Classic Three-Letter Monogram

For Individuals (most common)

Format:
First Name – Last Name (center, larger) – Middle Name

Example:
Charlotte Grace Monroe → C M G

Where to use:

  • Towels
  • Bedding
  • Baby clothing
  • Gifts

2. Straight Block Monogram

Modern & Professional

Format:
First – Middle – Last (all same size)

Example:
Charlotte Grace Monroe → C G M

Where to use:

  • Luggage
  • Men’s accessories
  • More modern pieces


3. Single Initial Monogram

Elegant Simplicity

Format:
Just the First or Last Initial

Example:
Charlotte Monroe → C or M

Where to use:

  • Bibs & bonnets
  • Hand towels
  • Linen napkins
  • Baby blankets

4. Couple’s Monogram


For Weddings & Shared Gifts

Format:
Wife’s First – Shared Last (center, larger) – Husband’s First

Example:
Emma & Henry Davis → E D H

Where to use:

  • Wedding gifts
  • Bedding & towels
  • Barware & napkins


5. Children’s Monograms

Tiny Initials, Big Charm

Most common format:
First – Last (center) – Middle

Example:
Lucy Anne Thompson → L T A

Where to use:

  • Gowns
  • Blankets
  • Baptism & birthday gifts

 

BONUS TIP: Fonts Matter!

  • Script fonts = Traditional, feminine
  • Block fonts = Modern or masculine
  • Hand embroidery = Soft and heirloom-like